Connect & Restore
Hi there!
My name is Jillian. I help women reclaim a felt sense of safety and resilience after and during stressful experiences, trauma, or periods of life transition.
Through gentle somatic practices, nervous system education, reflection, and somatic stress release, we can rewire the nervous system to feel safe and connected again.
When we notice and pay attention to the energetic and physiological ways that we hold stress and repressed emotions, we begin to get curious about the myriad of ways that our bodies speak to us.
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This Connect and Restore Practice Pack is a way to do just that: connect with yourself, extend connection to others while noticing your capacity, and restore reserves to remain present in connection.
Enjoy these practices in any order that you desire. Read the descriptions and start with what sparks interest or curiosity.
Ideally, you will practice with regularity. It doesn’t have to be 20 minutes every day, it can be a minute or two. The most important thing is to try and practice connecting and restoring regularly so that you may access them with ease when things feel hard.
Enjoy in silence or with music. Here’s a playlist made with this practice pack in mind!
Email me with questions or reflections.
In Connection,
Jillian
DAILY PRACTICES
Daily Practice.
Shortened Version: 8 min.
This is a great way to begin a daily practice with only an 8-minute commitment. While longer practices can feel luxurious, they can also be barriers to consistency.
This will bring a gentle awakening to your somatic awareness and noticing. This practice activates the parasympathetic nervous system to promote feelings of connection with yourself and others.
Try this every day for one week and notice how this shift impacts your days.
Daily Practice.
Extended Version: 26 min.
In this full-length practice, you will explore many ways to attune awareness to the body's internal experience and the present moment. This practice is designed for regulation and connection.
I encourage you to practice the full flow a few times to embed it into your somatic toolbox. Then you can select which practices best support you and create a practice flow of your own.
Any of these movements, acupressure points, or meridian stretches can be used in short, minute-long practices at any point in the day to return to yourself and the present moment.
CONNECTION PRACTICES
Connection Practice.
Shortened Version: 3 min.
Connection Practice.
Extended Version: 18 min.
In this connecting practice, you will focus on connection with your heart center and extending that connection outward to others.
Restoration.
Restorative Nidra Practice - 18 min.
A restorative practice to refill and replenish energy reserves through somatic awareness and mindful attention. I encourage you to lie down while doing this and make yourself as comfortable as can be. Have a blanket and settle for deep rest.
Reflection Prompts.
Journaling can be done at any time of the day to support reflective processing. Play around with finding the best time of day that works for you. I find it helpful to journal after or before daily practice.
Writing is a somatic practice, especially when you tune into the sensations felt in the body as you write. Ideally, these are meant to be free-flow writing prompts (continuous writing without thinking). Allow the pen to flow as an extension of whatever is bopping around the brain or remaining held in the body without judgment or perfectionism. This is not a practice in great writing. This is a practice of allowing the subconscious to be heard.
Morning Release
Exactly as it sounds. The process of dumping or releasing all contents onto the page first thing in the morning. This can help release something being held, while also opening up space for creative ideas and possibilities to come forward.First thing in the morning, write down everything that’s on your mind. Flood the journal with fears, thoughts, worries, excitements, questions, hurts, dreams, etc. It doesn’t matter if it makes sense. The intention is to just keep writing.
Once this feels complete, pause and connect with your body (see quick body scan segment of daily practice) and ask yourself, “What do I need today?”
Wait for an answer. Be patient. If you notice your brain kick in, come back to the body and wait. Once a sensation or answer arises, write it down.
Connect with where and how you feel this need in the body. The sensations, colors, visuals, textures, smells, sounds, etc. Connect with how it would feel to give yourself that thing that you need or desire. Breathe into this feeling.
Write what you visualized, imagined, felt, etc. Then release and trust that you will give yourself what you need or take the steps needed to get closer.
Connection
These are the places, people, and activities where I feel disconnected (list them)
These are the places, people, and activities where I tend to feel most connected: (list them)
How does (dis)connection with yourself relate to (dis)connection with others?
Is there anything that helps shift toward feelings of connection? How can you bring more of that into your day?
Boundaries
Somatic Practice: Take a moment to pause and play with feeling where your energetic boundary. You can do this by slowly moving your hands with palms out, away from and back toward the body. See if you get a felt sense of where the energy begins to shift. Where is there a buffer or protective barrier from outside stimulus.
Reflect on a time when you felt like your unspoken boundaries were crossed. Write about this experience. What happened? What were your boundaries in the moment? How do you know that they were crossed? What cues or signals did your body give you to notify you of this? What was your impulse in the moment? How did it feel if you did/did not act on that impulse? What would you do differently in the future?
Somatic Practice: Imagine that you did things differently by expressing your boundary or changing course when someone crossed a stated boundary. What does that look like? Feel like in the body?
Write down what it feels like in the body to have this boundary. Write that into a mantra to remind yourself when you feel like you need to state or reinforce a boundary that you’ve set.
Restoration
What are the things (yes, this can be people too) that physically or emotionally drain you?
What physically and/or emotionally restores you?
What would life look like if you felt restored? How would you feel? What would look different?